Debunking Six Social Media Myths
One of the savviest online marketers around, B.L. Ochman, takes aim in this article at six social media myths that you — and maybe your boss — ought to avoid …
1. Social media is cheap, if not free.
2. Anyone can do it.
3. You can make a big splash in a short time.
4. You can do it all in-house.
5. If you do something great, people will find it.
6. You can’t measure social media marketing results. [OK, maybe you don’t want to tell your boss about that one!]
She’s an experienced online marketer … worth a read.
Tom
P.S. There are some interesting comments on her article, once you get past her "spat" with one "Giovanni." Note the interview she plugs of internet pioneer Marc Andreesen by Charlie Rose.
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Obviously, the world I live in, where the $50,000 she says is a minimum investment in social media is practically half of our entire operating budget, is somewhere on an alien planet. This does cause me to doubt the real-worldliness of the rest of her article. So do small nonprofits just stand in the wings and watch the big guys cavort? I’m not impressed.
Social media marketing is super example of chaotic processes at work. Some things seem to work, sometimes for some people. Yet, the promise in the chaos is that you can be taken to strong patterns that work for you. Things may make sense later. And there are often unintended consequences. The best line I can think of with regards to social marketing -“you can’t win if you are not in the game.”
Trish – what i said in the piece is “I’m sure companies have spent less, and I know they’ve spent more.”
Don’t get hung up on the numbers. If you have knowledge, skill, elbow grease and lots of time, you can make a lot of great things happen. If you want a stellar track record, cutting edge tools, and big-time results – that’ll cost you.:>)