Lousy Boards, Lousy Bosses

May 11, 2018      Roger Craver

Yesterday’s  email yielded a field report from the circuit-riding Tom Ahern summarizing the dangers of lousy bosses and boards.  .

He had just previewed a new training session— Everyone’s a Critic– with an audience drawn from a few universities, the Girl Scouts, some hospital, social services,  arts/museums and a hospice.

Tom reports that “after two hours the group came to these conclusions:

  • “FUNDRAISING is hard work…ALWAYS.”

 

  • “Many B&Bs (Bosses and Boards) assume FUNDraising’s easy. HUGE!  MISTAKE!”

 

  • “It’s Human Nature: anything you personally don’t do is “easy.” Yeah?
    MAGIC! Just happens & it would happen EVEN BETTER if we [bosses or boards]—even with margarine as an ego—would also throw our opinions into the recipe.  We’re THAT smart.”

  • “Suddenly, a signal flashed projected bright black against the clouds.”

#NotAlone

Because we all have or will find ourselves faced with fundraising idiocy I wanted to share Tom’s message with  long-suffering Agitator readers who daily face the insufferable “wisdom” and “insights” of lousy bosses and boards.

Perhaps it’s time to fight back by instantly issuing flash cards or refrigerator magnets– on the spot– to those untrained, uninformed leadership know-it-alls who can’t resist offering their advice.

Tom suggests…

IGNORANCE IS NOT YOUR SUPERPOWER

Roger

9 responses to “Lousy Boards, Lousy Bosses”

  1. Amazing crap, n’est-ce pas? B&Bs don’t talk to accountants or lawyers like they talk to fundraisers. Ah tristesse!!!!!! Tom and I rail about this all the time.

    Lousy boards, lousy bosses. Hence my book FIRING LOUSY BOARD MEMBERS. And then there’s my “Well, Missy” story. I’m telling that in my newsyletter that drops on Monday.

    However, let’s remember…Look in the mirror. “WE” bear some responsibility in this mess. How well do we set the context and explain and help people learn just enough not to be so silly?

  2. Jane T. says:

    I thought the title meant that lousy boards hire lousy bosses, and in my experience that is very true. If the board isn’t clear on its responsibilities and focus, how do they know what qualities to look for in a senior executive?

  3. Kathy Swayze says:

    Flash card ideas for Boards:

    -The letter is NOT too long
    -YOU are not the target audience
    -Online fundraising is NOT free
    -Another event won’t solve the problem
    -Fundraising budget cuts grow deficits, don’t solve them
    -Golfing with your buddies isn’t fundraising
    -When you invest in fundraising, you get an actual return!!

    More ideas folks?

  4. Gail Perry says:

    You’re hitting the nail on the head here!
    Many bad fundraising decisions and policies are the rest of board interference!

    Often it’s not the long suffering fundraiser who is at fault. Instead it’s the misguided board members who want to make decisions based on opinion and personal preference rather than data and facts.

  5. Robin says:

    Or the lousy boss who thinks that direct mail appeal letters should be one page or you shouldn’t indent paragraphs…the key is learning out how to ferret out the lousy bosses because you ultimately know that behind every lousy boss is a lousy Board who has not been effectively enabled by the CEO.

  6. Gillian says:

    My boss has told me a few times that he hired me because of my experience and expertise. But, often, when I say or do something new or different he will push back. To which I say, “Best practices show and in my expert opinion . . . .” But, it still doesn’t change. Super lousy.

  7. Cindy Courtier says:

    Yes. There are lousy bosses, lousy boards and lousy development people.

    But do we bear some of the responsibility because we’re more willing to keep billing than say, “enough is enough”?

  8. What Kathy said. All we can do is our best. If after a reasonable period of sharing wisdom, experiences, research and examples we can’t move the needle, it may be time to go elsewhere and find some place where we CAN be successful. After a while, playing the blame game ends up with us pointing three fingers back at ourselves.

  9. Pamela Grow says:

    Brilliant, Kathy! We’re going to incorporate these flash cards into our next class – with full attribution of course.