Mr and Mrs … Kiss Of Death
May 10, 2013
Admin
Blogger Kivi Leroux Miller wants to be recognized when she’s a donor.
I don’t mean ‘recognized’ as in ‘applauded’.
I mean she expects, at least upon reaching some giving level, that a nonprofit to which she donates actually knows that she is a ‘she’ and, making the point that the 2010s are not the 1950s, that she’s not a mere appendage of her husband.
As Roger and I keep harping away, nonprofits need to get serious about customer service. which for nonprofits starts with knowing your donors. Remember this chart from Bloomerang?
Correct name spellings, correct addresses, correct salutations, etc. Can it be more basic?!
Tom
Thanks for sharing the rant, Tom!
Got to meet Roger in person for the first time yesterday, which was a pleasure, naturally.
Love this. The best information — and solutions — are always the simplest. And the “simple” are often fraught with delicate details. Kudos on this conversation.
Thanks for sharing! I have always hated the outdated and sexist “Mr. and Mrs. John Doe” label, which as you suggest, is indicative of a larger institutional bias toward tradition over donor preference. Between you and Kivi, I now have proof that some of the biggest names in the sector back me up!