You Don’t Own Me!
A very pithy post by Seth Godin this week …
You don’t own attention or trust or shelf space. You don’t even own tomorrow’s plans.
It’s all for rent, with a cancellation clause that can kick in at any time.
The moment you start treating the rental like a right, it disappears.
That sure seems to apply to donors.
Don’t thank them. Don’t emotionally bond. Don’t personalize your contacts. Let your relevance slip.
Then watch that cancellation clause kick in!
Tom
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Whether “help” is more engaging or not really depends on the framing and context. The word help can sometimes weaken the perceived agency of the supporter, making their role feel secondary rather than central (your point). On the other hand, help can also signal collaboration rather than implying full ownership of the outcome, which might […]
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Integrating an individual giving appeal with other communications from a charity can have both positive and negative effects, and the outcome largely depends on how it’s executed. Advantages of Integration Brand Consistency: Maintaining a consistent appearance and messaging across all communications can reinforce the org’s brand identity and strengthen brand recognition and trust among your […]
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Based on what we know from existing data, those renewal notices can actually be pretty effective in getting people to donate. They tap into our psychology – creating a sense of urgency, reminding us of past support, and using personalization to make the message hit home. They’re playing on our natural tendencies to feel obligated […]
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Spot on Tom and Seth. Like any other human relationship, it’s not something we can own. We nurture it or it dies. We care about our donors. We ask them what we can do for them. We provide them with value.
I don’t think we’re exactly renting them however. When you rent, you don’t really invest. When you own, you do. So which is it? Hmmn…
We’ve definitely got to be invested with our donors.