Jerry Cianciolo is Dead

January 12, 2024      Roger Craver

Jerry Cianciolo, ground-breaking Co-Founder and Chief Editor of the publisher Emerson & Church is dead

The news reached us via an email from Jim Hilborn, head of Civil Sector Press, the global nonprofit publisher that in 2022 acquired the Emerson & Church backlist and continues to publish and update their books. (See Keeping the Soul of Fundraising Alive.)

Jerry and his wife Kathleen Brennan launched Emerson & Church 38 years ago into what back then was pretty much a fundraising information desert with few and oft expensive “how to” books aimed at the practitioner.

“Their arrival was like an asteroid striking our world”, recalls Tom Ahern, the most prolific of authors in Jerry’s stable.  “Pretty soon you’d see more and more of his books at conference bookstores and, most importantly dog-eared and in use on the corner of fundraiser’s desks. Jerry and Kathleen built the essential publishing bridge for an exploding NGO industry trying to get from here to there.”

Within a few years there were dozens of practical and helpful “how to” books thanks to Jerry’s sometimes cantankerous but always clear-head approach and Kathleen’s patience and management skill.  All with practical advice and insights of use to both beginning and veteran fundraisers and nonprofit boards.  All reasonably priced with their content sharply focused.

Jerry, like any great editor, cared a hell of a lot less about authors’ needs than the reader’s.  He believed in short chapters, understandable prose and where possible a book that delivered not only helpful advice but could be read in 1 hour.

In fact, one of Emerson & Church’s classics is  Fundraising Realities Every Board Member Must Face: A 1 Hour Crash Course on Raising Major Gifts for Nonprofit Organizations  now in its 3rd edition by the author David Lansdowne—the nom de plume of none other than one Jerry Cianciolo.

As the devastating news of Jerry’s death made its way via email threads it was clear that Jerry was someone quite special –and also quite mysterious –to most of the authors whose work he shepherded.

Here’s a small sampling:

  • Ken Burnett, recalls, “Jerry first contacted me at the turn of the 1990s to ask me to write for his magazine Contributions, and over the next six or seven years I contributed 38 articles. As a Brit, personally singled out by him, I was deeply honoured to be asked. I remember in his first email to me he told me he’d read every book ever published on any aspect of fundraising, which of course impressed me deeply, indeed I found the very idea terrifying. We only ever corresponded by email – I never spoke to him directly. But we did have some lively electronic exchanges.

 

  • Kay Sprinkel Grace, commenting to fellow authors on an email thread last week also noted, “Isn’t it interesting that he had such a strong impact on most of us but many of us never met him?
  • Tom Ahern, who also confessed that had never met Jerry told me of how Jerry influenced him. “When I was struggling with my first book trying to say everything about everything, most of which I knew nothing about … Jerry picked out the strongest chapter and told me, ‘Turn this into a book. ‘Then he had a second piece of good advice: ‘Make the chapters short, readable in a few minutes. One thought per chapter.’

                 “Changed my writing and my life.”

I too never met Jerry, but we did have lots of wonderful exchanges beyond “work.” I learned more about aspects of the Red Sox and baseball than I ever wanted to know, and my gardening was helped along in growing marvelous crops of spring peas thanks to his horticultural acumen and advice.

In fact, while the niche of “book editor” is narrow, Jerry niche was far broader and deeper.  He was a renaissance guy in both his interests and contributions –contributions beyond the narrow confines of editing.

His columns in The Wall Street Journal covered everything from sports (It’s Not Baseball if You Can’t Hate the Umpire) to Piggly Wiggly. ( The Man Who Invented the Grocery Store)

From a community course he gave in art appreciation (“You Don’t Have to be a Connoisseur to Enjoy the Arts” workshop, which explored different topics over the course of four weeks, to “Lifelong Learning “sessions he held for seniors in his community, to helping high school kids with their college admissions essays, to coaching his daughter’s soccer team, his interests and enthusiasm seemed boundless.

My last update from Jerry was a year ago. On January 17th, 2023, after he and Kathy had left the publishing business, he emailed me noting that he was working on a self-improvement book.

I’m in the throes of the second chapter, and I suspect the manuscript will take me until this fall to finish.

“Unfortunately, I don’t have a “platform” to interest publishers. That is, I don’t have 500,000 followers on Instagram or the Ph.D. in psychology to “validate” what I’m saying.

“Still, my hope is that good writing will win the day and find an audience.

“Even if it doesn’t, already this project is making me a better human being. And who can ask for more than that.”

Roger

5 responses to “Jerry Cianciolo is Dead”

  1. I’m so sorry to hear this. I too never met Jerry but I talked to him at some point about my second book and he gave some great tips. My thoughts and prayers are to his family. Erica

  2. tom ahern says:

    >> Jerry shared a bit of his evolving self-improvement manuscript with me in 2023. It was a side of him I didn’t know or expect. Below, enjoy a small clip. These are his opening few words from one chapter — gentle, funny, comforting — offered now to you by me with love and respect … and totally without his permission. Jerry Cianciolo, career elusive, wrote this: <> Jerry, we hardly knew ye. Apparently that’s how you wanted it. With profound thanks for changing my life in SO many ways for the better … tom & simone <<

    • tom ahern says:

      Ummmm….

      Probably pilot error … but my response above OMITTED the ENTIRE Jerry clip from his self-help MS. It’s good stuff, too! Was that Jerry putting his finger on the privacy scales from heaven!!??!!??

      Haha, Jerry = I saved! So, dear reader, the text written by Jerry goes like this:

      Tombstones are funny.

      Sometimes, that is.

      One dentist inscribed his with the words “I’m filling my last cavity.”

      Another man, with dreams of grandeur, chose as his epitaph, “I was hoping for a pyramid.”

      And a weekend duffer rejoiced, “At last, a hole in one.”

      Clearly, these individuals had the virtue of humor.

      But let’s assume that death is no joking matter for you.

      In which case, for your granite marker perhaps you’d choose something conventional like “A tender heart and generous spirit” or “A loving mother and a faithful friend.” Or if you’ve lingered in the Hallmark aisle, “Family is everything.”

      All worthy choices, but here’s a different challenge.

      If asked today to single out one and only one virtue that you’d want to epitomize your life and be etched on your headstone, what would it be?

      Love? Generosity? Compassion? Integrity?

      Before you answer, here’s a suggestion.

      Humility.

  3. Roger–

    Thanks for this special memorial minute. Unlike so many of you who had the good fortune to have Jerry Cianciolo even better writers than you already were, I did know Jerry an Kathleen. When I moved back to New England in 1988 their offices were in the neighborhood at the corner of Commonwealth Avenue and Centre Street. I would visit them there.

    I first got to know them as a subscriber to Contributions, it was a wonderful journal that I used for many years in its print form for my students in the graduate program at Brandeis University in which I taught Fundraising Management. They generously allowed me to come and pick up enough copies for my students. And then when they moved out of Newton, they would send me copies.

    I loved all of their books and assigned many to help my students to begin to build very practical libraries.

    Thanks again for your wonderful note that brightens this otherwise sad time. May Jerry’s memory ever be a blessing for all.

    Best regards–David